Welcome to the emotional rollercoaster that is Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD)âbasically PMSâs overachieving, chaos-loving cousin. If PMS is a moody Monday, PMDD is a full-blown Shakespearean tragedy with thunder, lightning, and a dramatic monologue in the rain.
PMDD is not just âPMS but worse.â Itâs a real, diagnosable mood disorder that shows up during the luteal phase of your cycle (aka the 1â2 weeks before your period). Itâs like your brain and hormones are in a toxic relationship and youâre stuck in the middle of their messy breakup.
If youâve ever felt like a completely different person before your periodâlike, âWhy am I crying because I dropped a grape?ââyou might be dealing with PMDD. Common symptoms include:
đ˘ Depression that makes you want to live under a blanket forever
đĄ Irritability that turns âmildly annoyedâ into âburn it all downâ
đ° Anxiety that convinces you everyone secretly hates you
đ Mood swings that could win an Oscar
đ§ Brain fog, fatigue, and the sudden inability to remember why you walked into a room
These symptoms arenât just âugh, Iâm cranky.â They can seriously mess with your job, school, relationships, and general ability to function like a human.
PMDD canât be diagnosed with a blood test or a magic wand. Instead, youâll likely need to:
Track your symptoms for at least two menstrual cycles
Show that symptoms disappear once your period starts (like a hormonal ghost)
Rule out other conditions like depression or anxiety that donât follow the same monthly pattern
PMDD affects up to 1 in 20 menstruating people, and many go undiagnosed for years. If this sounds like your monthly reality, youâre not aloneâand youâre definitely not imagining it. PMDD is real, itâs intense, and it deserves to be taken seriously.
So next time someone says âItâs just PMS,â feel free to unleash your inner PMDD warrior and educate themâwith or without the dramatic monologue.